✨What do you fantasize about? ✨
As I’m all snuggled up in bed - my mind started wandering to some of my fantasies - the ones we often keep inside
How we all have these fantasies that move through our minds.
How liberating it is to speak them aloud and honor them openly
How it feels to embrace them and share
✨A few of my fantasies ✨
- Exotic location sex and traveling the world and having all of the sex outdoors in Mother Nature :)
- Being watched by a large group of people while having sex, sucking cock, worshiping my beloved and being devoured and led by my beloved
- Being tied up and made love to by my beloved in front of a large group of people
- Being in presence and worshiping a room of men and their cocks. Having a circle of cocks to enjoy for my liking :)
- To fuck a sub and his mouth with a strap on :)
- Being watched having sex In the car
- Having my pussy eaten from behind as I look out onto the water :) Also, looking out over a mountain and forest
What are the fantasies that move through your mind? 💭
When you think of foreplay- what do you think of?
Foreplay is my favorite space.
The build of the tension.
The tease.
The play.
The ebbs and flows of surges of energy rushing through the body
The wait.
Foreplay comes in many layers
Mental - physical - spiritual -
✨Do you play in foreplay with yourself? ✨
This can look like -
• Being present with yourself in looking in the mirror
• Nourishing yourself throughout the day with what brings you peace and joy and presence
• Gazing at yourself in how you would gaze at a lover or who turned you on
• Putting on an outfit that turns you on while wearing it
• Set up your environment in a way that turns you on. Using smells, textures and all that makes the space come alive for you.
• Get yourself a treat for your hard work after the day or during the day
• Give your body little brushes of sensual touch throughout the day reminding it - you’re coming home to fully play with it later ;)
✨Foreplay with a lover can be :
• How present we are in conversation with our partner and how we gift our presence when together
• Helping with or doing a task to take something off of their to do list or needs to help them relax
• Sending a sweet affirming and thoughtful text message or audio
• Setting the environment with how you know supports soul relaxation for your lover vs just sexual relaxation or physical
• Light gentle non sexual touches throughout the day prior to any sexual connection - add in little sexual touches after that you know your partner enjoys
• Surprising your lover with something you know supports their relaxation or joy
• Present gazes and how we gaze and use our body language within time with our partner
How we look at one another.
Breathing together.
Listening to one another.
Sharing a deep opening conversation where the minds feel stimulated and heard .
Serving one another.
This, is foreplay before the foreplay ♥️
A seed connected to something, so much greater 💛
To look back at my life and see how many of the heartbreaks, failures and hard times I struggled in were seeds to unfolding to something so much bigger for me.
To my growth.
To my expansion.
To my next love.
To my next chapter.
Just as rain in life can seem like an inconvenience, it is really a gift as it is watering the growth of something larger in life :)
‘May we hold this in our hearts during the hard times and days 💛
Let’s DANCE ☺️🧡
What is your go to song that makes you feel GOOD?
✨The song that guides the joy right into you? ✨
This song, is one for me ☺️
Can you feel my joy as I dance to this?
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✨Before we touch, I want to breathe you in ✨
~ The power in connecting with our breath ~
With our own breath.
With a lover.
Without even a brush of a fingertip, how we can bring ourselves alive using just - our breath
✨3 Ways To Use Breath To Ignite Pleasure✨
1. Imagining you are slowly and gently sipping through a straw - guiding the visualized breath into the area of the body you want to bring into pleasure. Exhaling slowly through the mouth with gently pursed lips. Feeling the body softening and opening.
2. Sitting with a mirror - begin eye gazing with yourself as you start to combine slow, deep inhales into the nose with full slow exhales through the mouth with a growl, moan or sound afterwards. Feeling the body aliven yet relaxing more at the same time. Allow the breath to become gradually stronger and more expressed over time.
3. Laying on your back - Allowing the body to fully relax into the floor. Close your eyes and slowly lightly place your hands over your cock. With slow deep inhales into the nose, release the exhales with an OOOOO or AHHHH as slowly as you can out from the mouth as you feel the vibration in your area of your cock or where you want to stimulate pleasure ♥️
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I remember the first time I was tied - I fell in love
Being shown the ropes and unfolding into feeling them across my skin. A new love.
I had no idea that rope and this connection with it could open me the way that it did.
That it could hold the healing that it did for me.
The space for focus yet surrender
I was falling deeper into presence with each tie and tug.
Thank you rope for all of the medicine you give me.
I love this space to connect with myself.
One of my favorite spaces to unfold 💗
Have you ever desired to be tied up?
Our bodies were not created to be judged, compared or placed in a value system.
Your body is PERFECT in - YOU
Every line. Every scar. Every fold. Every color.
After starting this work years back - I found myself struggling in seeing my body in the way I do now as between the continued comments of what others found perfect and appealing in me to them and then the comparison to others - it was hard to stay connected in the knowing that - my body just - is.
Perfect in more than just bouncy breasts, my long legs or my hips but - all of it.
Allowing myself to look in the mirror each day with my naked body and say - your value isn’t what others see or share about you - you are beautiful - just as you are.
I love this work because it is an opening for everyone. A continued opening for me to connect with my body in more than just what others want or see as “beautiful”
This is - mine and I want to remind that for everyone else in their bodies too.
No one else deserves or can place value on the perfection of what your body is.
There is no - better in another.
There is perfectly - you 💛
A check in ❤️
In this moment - how are you breathing right now?
Are your breaths feeling shorter or shallow?
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Are your lungs expanding as you are breathing?
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Is your stomach slowly expanding on your inhales?
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Are you breathing from your mouth, nose or both?
Often in the go go go of life paired with our stress - we may end up unconsciously breathing more shallow and in shorter breaths -
Shallow and shorter breathing can leaves us feeling
- pain in the body
- foggy in the brain
-constricted
- fatigued
- anxious
- more on edge
✨When we dedicate moments to check in with our breath - we start to build a relationship with understanding it as well as how to shift it back to center.
How are you breathing right now?
Simply - witness ❤️
Use the clip above to drop into some slow deep breaths - guiding you back to center ✨
Have you ever sat back and just witnessed a woman in her fullness before you? Nude or not
Allowing your gaze to soak in every move she makes and the energy behind it all
Feeling her touch - all as she only touches herself
Feeling her turn on - all as she is far in front of you
Being witnessed - This is medicine for me and the rest of the feminine ✨
To have a safe space where we can - be
That space we can honor our fullness and share all of what we naturally shame, hide or have pushed away.
To open to you all as we are opening to ourselves
To have the masculine just - witness us.
To Allow. To soak it all in.
THIS IS MEDICINE.
Thank you for witnessing me 😌💛
Happy August 🪞☀️
Taking a moment for this new month ahead :
💭What do we desire for this month ahead?
💭If we were to hold a theme or mantra for ourselves for this month - what would it be?
- What is 1 promise you would like to make for yourself this month?
- What is 1 goal you would like to focus on for this month?
Creating the joy. Creating the play.
In each day, how can we do this for ourselves?
Maybe it’s making our favorite treat for ourselves?
Maybe it’s trying a new food each week?
Maybe it’s going out for live music one night?
Maybe it’s scheduling time for creating?
Maybe it’s dancing around the kitchen while you cook?
Maybe it’s watching something that brings you a laugh?
With life’s responsibilities and pacing - we have to be the reminders and creators of these moments for ourselves otherwise - we can get stuck in the - shoulds, responsibilities and stagnancy.
To add the color. To find the joy or even - create it.
Every moment we honor this for ourselves - we are filling our own cup back up.
The more our own cup is filled - the more we can take on the day to day, responsibilities and all with calm, ease and broader perspective
It is not selfish to spend time nourishing YOU
It is a need.
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To honor all aspects of us 🧡
We were never created to be one dimensional
We were never created to hold focus to be - perfect or to never show what’s true
This life before us in all of its waves, light, unfoldings, messiness, laughs, unknowns, tears, confusions, grief - it all holds beauty and life in its own way.
The rain - just as needed as the sunshine.
Your moments of unknowing and doubt are just as beautiful as your moments of leading
Your moments in your raw and wild are just as needed as your moments in your stillness
Your moments in tears are just as beautiful and life giving and human as the moments in the big smiles.
To honor all of the beautiful YOU there is 🤍
We open when we feel safe 🤍
Our body is a guide
It whispers reminders that it needs to be listened to, tended to, allowed -
We must remember that it will never be in just the words, physical looks, the gifts or the material that opens our partners or us at the deepest - it is when our full being, heart and body feel HELD and SAFE as who we are.
This is for every one of us.
✨How great and opening does it feel to be accepted and honored as who we are without having to be and put on to be - more?
✨How are we creating that knowing of safety with our own selves daily?
✨How are we creating those reminders of safety for our beloved / lover?
In the safety, we open.
In the safety, we come home.
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Place your hand on top of hers
Guide your eyes to match hers
Breathe.
Breathe into her.
Breathe into you.
Breathe - for eachother.
In your breath you guide the safety
In your breath- there lives the opening
Connecting with your Cock 🤍✨
Join me in my FREE introduction video for my new cock connection video bundle where I talk about the beauty and importance in spending time in connection with your cock!
~ Have you ever spent time honoring your own cock? Worshiping it?
~ Have you ever gazed at its perfection as it is?
Without the sexual aspect - have you or do you spend time loving and showing your cock love? With touch or even without?
Thanking it?
Your cock is desiring of deep connection.
The openings within every aspect of life just from this one practice of spending more time with your cock in pure presence.
In this video I share about -
1. Why cock connection?
2. The physical benefits of cock connection
3. The cock - heart connection
3. Reflections of our own journey with our cock
And more!
Are you ready for a new pleasure practice? 💛
Today - just this - allowed me to open into this innocent yet WILD PRIMAL sexual energy that im now using to create and feel full in my day with.
You will need :
- A pillow
- A soft blanket or covering for the ground
- Headphones and a way to guide in music
- A journal ( to reflect how this and each experience moves you )
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~ Finding a space outside that you have some privacy within
~ Using a pillow and soft blanket or covering of your choosing - allow yourself to set up a sacred space for you to relax here
~Begin by doing whatever helps you release tension or stress from your body and being. - So maybe slow deep breaths, maybe gentle massage to the body, maybe talking out loud saying you are releasing each area or thought - whatever helps you relax deeper before beginning.
~ Place your headphones into your ears and find some instrumental music that makes you feel allowed to relax yet also feel - sexy ( this music looks differently for each of us so you find what makes you feel held, allowed and relaxed )
~ Closing your eyes - begin to connect your breath with your body ~ listening to your body soften in each breath. Guiding the breath into the nose and gently out through the mouth
~ Feeling your body open deeper with each breath. Giving your body permission to drop deeper into the ground and into itself.
~ Begin to guide slow stretching and movement of the body. Combining the breath with each stretch. Feel yourself soften with each neck roll and sway.
~ Allowing the breath to guide itself on its own as you drop deeper into listening to the music. Feel the music go through your body. How each note is an opening. How the music connects with your breath.
~ As you drop deeper into the music, allow yourself to start slowly connecting with each area of your body and also feeling your surroundings -
• the way the sun is warming your body and face
• the way the blanket feels against your skin
• the way your body is spread on the blanket
• the way you feel so held by the music and this space
Combining this presence, our breath, the sound, the (soft blanket, warm sun and sensory) - the more we bring sexual energy / life energy into our body
Using this as a daily practice.
Noticing how you feel even after 5 minutes of doing this for you 🤍✨
You are deserving to feel this sexual energy running through your body.
Outside of masturbation- there is so much more than can make us feel that sense of - ALIVE.
I would love to hear your feedback if you try this exercise 😌🤍
Nourishment For You ♥️
Allowing your eyes to soften or close
Allowing your body to soften into a space you enjoy, can fully relax and also feel safe
Breathing into your body - as slowly and gently as you can
Let the sounds bring your soul whatever it needs
( The best listening experience for the virtual sound bowls is with headphones )
Sending you deep sleep ♥️
Spending even 5 minutes a day in pure presence and worship with your body…
Watch your life - shift.
Have you ever spent time worshiping your own body? 💭
Have you ever watched your finger tips slowly graze across your body?
To breathe into every ounce.
To explore every line.
To thank every piece. Every curve.
To breathe into this body that is YOURS.
Our bodies are made of pure - love.
Pure energy.
In day to day life - we can often live fast paced and disconnected from our body and in that - they are waiting for us to slow down and connect with them. To listen. To learn them. To worship them.
To spend time in worship with our body is to say - I love you.
When we spend time with our body - touching it in presence, learning it, listening to it - it opens us.
It strengthens us.
It heals us.
In every avenue of life.
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WOMAN ✨
Honoring her - all of her.
Seeing her - all of her.
Holding her - all of her.
In her fierceness.
In her raw.
In her love.
In her wild.
In her fullness.
In her mess.
I honor her.
What turns me on?
This 🤍
Often times we think we need to do MORE to create a greater turn on or to build sexual energy within but - what if it really was held in the subtraction?
The subtraction of trying.
Of working harder or faster.
Of trying to control anything at all.
In simply coming in contact with our breath. Feeling our touch against our skin as deeply, presently and as slowly as we can.
Breathing this in moment after moment.
Simply witnessing your fingertips. Witnessing the touch.
Witnessing the impact of locking eyes with another.
There is energy waiting in these moments for us ✨🪞.
