How will you show yourself love today? 🌹 I love making these cookies on rainy days You can eat them as just dough or make them in the oven for a quick 5-7 minute bake -sunflower butter -maple syrup -coconut or almond flour or regular flour :) -cinnamon -nuts or chocolate chips
2021-03-23 21:37:51 +0000 UTC View Post
I have been reflecting on desire. Desire is what keeps us fueled to move forward in much in life. Desire, can be a beautiful motivator and gift to our days. A blessing to continue wanting more or feel safe to tune deeper into all around us in life. Desire does not have to be something we fear or shame or deny or reject. Desire also does not need to be something that controls us or destroys us. Desire we must see, is always a simple energy that calls us in and a message to take back. It is what we do with our energy, that can make a difference. ** When you are being called into an energy of another, just know, it does not have to control you or you do not have to do anything with it if you don’t wish. This is where we fear, desire. ( If you are married and a woman really turns you on, it doesn’t have to be bad. This energy can be a beautiful motivation in the day and can be a fuel if used within that motivation way and not lost in her) 🌹 My desire for this space here on OF: is to motivate you from your desire, fantasies and truth and within my sensuality, play and sharing, not only distract you. To have you feel my essence and body and have that be a fuel for you to continue feeling into and building into your best self and life without distracting you from knowing you can have it I hope to be a piece in it 💛 To be a space of rest and play for you here but also not pure distraction from becoming all you wish to be I want your desire, to inspire you I want my body and self to motivate you, inspire you, call you back home to your soul. You are deserving of what you dream. Use me and this space as a reminder and motivator that you can have and are always deserving of the greatest sex, pleasure, love and life. I hope to motivate you, in some way, every single day 💛💛💛
2021-03-23 21:22:57 +0000 UTC View PostIn eye contact, our souls open 🌹 In eye contact, our hearts open 🌹 In eye contact, presence opens 🌹 • What is your relationship to eye contact in the bedroom? • Do you enjoy it with a partner or tend to avoid it if possible? Hold a few moments to connect in with me here • How do you feel looking into my eyes?
2021-03-22 21:30:32 +0000 UTC View Post
Devoted to honoring this vessel 🌹 She speaks to me. She calls out for a present heart and hands to worship her body the way she enjoys to in another She yearns for the fierce wild and yet, the gentle This body, here, always, LOVE Every touch, LOVE
2021-03-22 21:25:12 +0000 UTC View Post
30 feels good 🎉🎈 Thank you to each and every one of you who wished me a happy birthday and helped make it special :) Cheers to celebrating all month long! ☀️ 10 facts about Harper ☀️ 1. I have a deep love for watching sunrises and sunsets 2. I love a good produce section in a grocery store 3. Watching a beloved cook for me turns me on 4. Tacos are one of my favorite foods 5. The silence in the early mornings is one of my favorite parts of the day 6. I feel deep in my feminine when I’m stripping / during strip tease 7. I am bi sexual. I find myself drawn to dating men most though. I enjoy worshiping women and women worshiping me in the bedroom. My first kiss with a girl was with a best friend growing up, first time sex with a girl, another best friend during college :) 8. I love homemade gifts and thoughtful surprises 9. I was the primary caretaker for my aunt / best friend during her time with ALS which changed my life forever 10. I spend most of my free time exploring nature What else do you want to know about me? ☺️
2021-03-19 21:49:19 +0000 UTC View Post
A love that was deeper than just, words What are your favorite non verbal ways to express love?
2021-03-19 00:34:02 +0000 UTC View Post
True confessions: I LOVE to worship and be worshiped during sex. I LOVE worshiping my lover’s body, head to toe. Looking them deeply in the eyes as I slide their cock or body into my mouth and show it such, devotion + LOVE + presence I have had beautiful opportunities placed in life to worship multiple beings all at once. Allowing Last year, 4 of us, all broken open in sharing a space of intimacy and love, together on the floor. Me, worshiping the woman as I tuned into her, her kisses, her touch, her yoni and her body. The men, worshiping, us. We, them. This, I dream of having again. I feel one of my main purposes in life is to remind people of their beauty back within them and one way I do this with partners is within my touch, my presence and within a deeper sexual space 🌹 Do you like being worshiped during sex, worshiping or both?
2021-03-17 22:55:02 +0000 UTC View Post
A peek into my new post on Instagram Do you follow me there? 🌹 • hometoharperlane •
2021-03-17 22:35:19 +0000 UTC View Post☀️ New Breathwork Practice ☀️ Building + Circulating Our Sexual Energy ** The focus of this video is learning how to use the breath + visualization to build sexual energy up through the spine and down through the front of the body to end in fullness of its build/fire in the pelvic area. We can use this sexual energy build up and practice before we self pleasure, are sexual with another, to aliven ourselves to complete a goal for the day and so much more! Let me know if you try this video + what you felt 💛☀️
2021-03-17 00:14:37 +0000 UTC View Post☀️✨13 minute video of my morning yoga / stretching / sexual embodiment practice ✨☀️ The way we connect with our bodies in the morning, can impact the way our day tends to unfold I used to be one to race into and through my morning into the day: respond to an email, race to a task or grab my phone the moment I woke up. Now, I slow down, for as long as I’m able. Touch my body in presence. Speak to it. Listen in. Love on it first thing. Remind it of its beauty, its power, its worth. Sitting with my body in presence in the morning, even just for a few moments: really sitting and being in awe of it all, it connects me deeper to myself, my sexual self, my feminine and sensuality as well as a deep feeling + knowing of my gifts and true worth as a human. Who knew this one practice could go so deep? This practice has the ability to calm me, aliven me, make me feel turned on and motivated all in ONE ☀️✨💛 Happy Monday, Beautiful Souls Don’t forget to move those sexy bodies of yours and show them some extra love today :) ✨Do you enjoy seeing looks into my practices?
2021-03-15 16:08:41 +0000 UTC View Post
To my men: What is it that you notice in a woman that turns you on or lights you up? Whatever comes to mind write it below in the comments ✨💛 We all are attracted to much physical in another yes, but much of what even attracts us to this physical in this other person in our environment is the ENERGY behind the person. The way they carry themselves. Their lifestyles. Their physical is a piece, yes. Energetically. Emotionally. We see and feel this in all of the people around us. The reality is: We will find attraction in others. This, is more or less, a lot of their energy. We wish for more softness maybe. We see it in another. We wish for more seduction , we feel it in another. We wish for more presence. We feel it in another. This understanding and acceptance of our truth of attraction to others we come across in our day to day lives doesn’t have to become harmful, shouldnt be shamed on either end or doesn’t have to create issues in partnership or in our lives and growth of them if we understand ourselves, how to embrace but also have understanding of our true connection and deep desires of these energies for our lives all around. ✨ We may see, we love our partner but oddly feel an immediate attraction for another at the grocery store. This is much due to this energy and all they encompass and how that connects to our spark in the desires and sparks we have within us. ✨💛The BIG question : What will we do with the energies we encounter throughout the day? Suppressing them or wishing them away or acting as if they do not exist, won’t make them go away. We can embody them. Carry them home and use these energies we felt from others with our partners or in our lives without necessarily needing to fulfill that need from that energetic pull within that other. We can play with it. Feel into it. Observe your truth with these desires or pulls into energy around you. As, you do deserve to fully embody your truth and you desires in life. You can, have all if we understand what our true relationship with all is. How can we still see and embrace these powerful, pleasurable energies without letting them totally harness us? Or not to become too obsessed or lost in these places of pleasurable energy. I believe, we can come to learn and embrace all around pleasure and energy us. Feel into it. Use it. Pull from it. ☀️✨What do you feel about this?
2021-03-14 18:21:22 +0000 UTC View Post
Can you love her in her innocence and her “whore”? Can you feel and embrace her fully in her wild and her softness? This, is the dream of the feminine This, is how she lets go Knowing, she is seen and accepted in all that she is. In all that it is. I dream of a soul walking alongside me breathing in the fullness of all that I am, a desire and embracing of the moments of my animal and my moments of pure innocent still that all makes me, me. Can you breathe in the beauty and purpose in ALL that the feminine brings to you? Her animal, awaits to be met by your presence, just as her softness does Can you hold and breathe both of her powerful energies in? ☀️What do you feel in these photos? ☀️Which is / are your favorite(s)?
2021-03-13 20:48:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Do you worship and see her body for all that it is? Allowing the beautiful moments connecting to just the visual, the aliveness her physical being brings you but also not just getting lost in only the beauty in her physical.. Feeling into the energy that her body or parts of her body and self bring you with her soul igniting the flame inside of it all. Can you feel her energy for you through her skin? Place your hand on her heart during intercourse or an intimate moment Close your eyes or connect with hers and simply notice her. Feel her. Her love. Her desire for you, for life, Feel her in her energy. * Can your fingertips feel her deep desire for you pulsing through her breasts as you connect with them? * Can your cock connect into feel her energy and craving of you radiating from her yoni / vagina as you connect with her being and body? She craves you to feel ALL of her during your most sexual + intimate moments with her. To focus to connect in further than just the looks of her body. Not just her body or a touch onto it Not just your pull or a release of a feeling She will give you the gift of a present life heaven the moment you can feel all of her through her body, the moment and her expressions She can unfurl safely into your being when she feels you connect into her wholeness with her. Your eyes taking in the full beauty and presence within her, behind them. Your hands taking in the energy behind her miracle shape of a body, this magical blessing that makes you aliven in your primal and pulse and crave to penetrate her. It is BEAUTIFUL. She desires that. All when she feels, safe. Can you trace her body with reminders of your desires? Of reminders that you crave her and still see the beauty in every ounce of it all? She desires your primal desire for her. Know this. She just needs to feel CRAVED in her fullness, too. SEEN. Take in her body, her expressions, her being, in all of its fullness, in every moment you can She will feel you. The greatest gift to her heart and allowing her to unfold into her sexual being within you is you seeing her in all that she is. Every little bit.
2021-03-12 18:27:19 +0000 UTC View Post
Big deep breath in, Slow exhale until your breath is fully released out without needing to force it further Hand on your heart Feel my presence connect into that heart space of yours Breathe me in. Breathe your wonderful gift of self, in How are you? How is your heart? Wishing you moments of pleasure, moments of peace, moments of rest today and always ✨☀️
2021-03-12 18:09:27 +0000 UTC View PostTurning 30 tomorrow ✨ Spending my weekend deep in the forest, nourishing myself with my instruments and endless fruit. Reflecting on life. How beautiful of a gift it all is. Even the pieces I don’t understand, they are beautiful in their own way, bringing me closer to soul Grateful for every moment For every one of you being a piece in my journey Thank you
2021-03-07 00:26:32 +0000 UTC View Post
Trace them with your presence Glide your finger tips and your intention across every inch, showing her, you see the beauty in her fullness Her breasts connect directly to her heart The way you take in her breasts allows her heart to see a part in your intention in connection with her body Will you worship her breasts in a way you wish her to worship your cock or see your body the same? Will you fall deep into presence with them as if it were your last time your hands or lips would ever be able to fall upon them again, each time? Kiss them, with love Trace them, with love Breathe into their beauty If they turn you on, breathe that in deeper If they bring you peace, sit with that a moment longer She feels you In every touch. In every kiss. She feels you.
2021-03-05 19:40:31 +0000 UTC View Post
Do you see the miracle that you are?
2021-03-04 17:19:24 +0000 UTC View Post
As she starts to seduce you, breathe it IN As she moves to undress, breathe that moment IN As you lock eyes with her, hold that moment and breathe it IN As her lips slide across yours, breathe that IN As she moves her mouth over your cock, really breathe it IN How deeply can you feel into her in each moment with her? The sexual energy and authentic feminine empowered expression and unfolding that can naturally occur in a woman when she feels HELD in presence of her expression can be LIFE changing for a man and, all. Show her you are in that moment with her
2021-03-04 01:21:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Thrifting brings me such joy 💛✨ Finding items or clothing that once belonged to another: knowing they hold a story. Saving money on clothing and items I buy for my home, books etc and being able to use it within my other needs or passions, excites me This past week, my favorite thrift store had a coupon where it was 50% off your order and you could use it 3 times. I SCORED on so many new clothes and books 🤩 The amount of books I have been able to find relating to my passions snd what I wish to learn, all SO cheap. Allowing me to read, so much more 😭❤️ Here are just a few of the clothing pieces I found! 🥰 Would you guys like to post different try on videos to share the new clothes I get? ✨Tip if you like this idea ✨
2021-03-02 21:21:02 +0000 UTC View Post
We need to feel you. We love to see you turned on by our body, of course. This, drives us WILD. We just needs to also feel you FEEL our fullness. How can we get lost in the turn on of a woman’s body but also, her beautiful feminine essence? ✨💛 This is KEY. When we are connecting with a woman, it is easy to fall into being immediately captivated by the curves of her body, the glow of her eyes, the tightness of her ass, the smoothness of her skin, the perkiness of her breasts. This is a natural male instinct and response to be turned on by the feminine body. This can be, beautiful. Us women, need to feel you turned on by our bodies. One problem in this though: we fear you only getting lost in our bodies. To open during sex or building into a space of intimacy, we need to feel you with us, for more than our bodies that turn you on. There is a beautiful exchange that can happen between a man and woman when there is that turn on by the body, that allowance of that focus but also the deep presence and SEEING and embracing of her full feminine essence. Pointing out or seeing the little things in her in those moments. Coming back to focus when you see your mind only shift to the way her body looks. Breathe her in. Close your eyes and feel her heart giving to you. Take her IN. For us women, we need to feel your captivation by our bodies, but also, our full essence. Presence in our being with you. If you are lost, only in our bodies, we disconnect our hearts and bodies from being fully open in an intimate space. Our hearts need to see and feel that you are seeing ALL of us. Not just our bodies turning you on. Showing a woman in the smallest of ways, you are there with her. You see her. She will feel you. She craves her king that is captivated, motivated and obsessed with her body but also, with her FULL energy. ❤️
2021-03-02 20:16:52 +0000 UTC View Post
Just like life, we all crave, desire and also need, that BALANCE. All softness and ease, we may get bored. All wild and intense, we may get burnt out, go numb to the intensity or continue on an endless search as to what can create more of that wild. Do you know: This balance of soft and wild is exactly what builds the most beautiful of our pleasure to be experienced? This is deeply important too for the soul, especially the feminine, who may be more shy or doing from a state of conditioning of hiding away or shaming their wild Allowing and embracing this wild and softness, all in one. How can we play in these energies today? What does your WILD look like? What does your SOFTNESS look like? ❤️
2021-03-01 22:15:25 +0000 UTC View PostHave you ever used one of these before? One of my favorite tools to use on my body :) LIFE CHANGING for muscle tension + release 💛 The way we care for our bodies, matters Give them some extra love, every single day
2021-03-01 20:08:31 +0000 UTC View PostThe depth of the pleasure we seek and get starts with the pleasure we gift to ourselves ☀️✨ How deep do you allow your connection to pleasure or self pleasure to go? For many of us, our pleasure is focused on how much, how fast and how long we can feel that “peak hit” of the physical feeling within all. While, this is great and can be fun: What if I told you, there was even a better feeling, SO much more to what we know is the best? It awaits for us in the understanding of what is beneath the surface of what we know to be our pleasure. It is awaiting for us My pleasure used to be focused on how fast I could hit that good feeling, how fast my vibrator could get to its ability to make me peak and hit the perfect spot to release into that feeling. Diving deeper into learning about my own pleasure and what I truly wanted, made me step into chosen celibacy for over a year now, a re creating of the relationship I had with my self pleasure and pleasure all together I wanted, depth and true aliveness in my orgasms and pleasure, not just that quick release into the temporary physical feeling. I knew there was more. Since I have been making a daily practice of connecting in with my feminine and sexual being through dance, movement and intuitive touch everyday for close to a year now, I feel SOOO alive, so tuned into my sensuality and my sexual energy tank has been FULL. My sexual energy is FUELING me in my day. My pussy tingles in excitement. Im using this new extra energy not to release into endless orgasms or self pleasure, losing that beautiful energy and aliveness in my orgasms, but instead using this juicy sensual energy and aliveness to create new body connection videos, focus on my new intimacy projects and intimacy courses :) . I’m turned on more than ever before following my truth in my sensuality. Allowing it to be what it wants in every moment. Not striving for only what I know in a quick hit or force of a feeling I only ever knew. This aliveness, is medicine Can we sit in our pleasure, all of the pleasure around us in life and really say “fuck, WOW” There is juiciness awaiting in everyday What we will do with it today?
2021-03-01 18:21:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Many women often come to a point of feeling closed off in their bodies. They close off to sex. To growing with their partners or more pleasure for themselves. Settling. Finding the comfort in other areas to fill the desire and confusion left, in the other Desiring and dreaming to feel the deepest of love, pleasure, connection and most intense sex and surrender but also feeling, fed up and frustrated in life and choosing to feel anger, closing off instead. Most walls, up. Confused on this journey of stepping into and embracing their sensual and sexual selves to be there and be alivened. She dreams of being empowered in her essence, allowing this to build to her surrender into your being and your lead fucking her and both of you, in your surrenders, into another dimension. The ability for this moment for her, also comes with her need to feel relaxed and open in her own fullness of her body, her solo sensuality and as a sexual being as a whole. Empowering a woman in her own journey of expressing into her feminine essence, her sensual being and exploring herself as a sexual soul is one of the greatest gifts you can give a woman. A man who empowers a woman to step into that space freely, in her own timing and authentically, who supports her: he will see the way she feels safe and the way she surrenders into him. If we wish for a present, open hearted but also WILD woman in bed, this comes with the feminine’s need to 1st feel safe in her own wild self expression Women grow up being confused. We want to be connected to our feminine bodies, our hips, our pleasure, to what is and who is our sensual and sexual selves: learning them, empowering them. We are shown to be wanted in our sensual and sexual selves but also, shamed in stepping into embracing them. Reminding a woman of your support in her journey of that authentic expression of her feminine essences gives her a space of safety and love for her that all women dream of. The surrender comes in the empowerment of her WILD. Can we embrace her, not fear her in her WILD?
2021-02-27 20:42:18 +0000 UTC View PostNEW VIDEO: 3 WAYS TO EXTEND OUR PLEASURE These 3 powerful areas we can focus on and work with that can allow us to extend our pleasure with : ourselves, a partner or in any experience in life where we are feeling, pleasure or aliveness. ☀️ Have you ever tried working with any of these 3 areas before?
2021-02-26 19:06:01 +0000 UTC View Post
☀️ A Little About Me ☀️ I feel the most at peace and the closest feeling of home when I’m exploring, walking in the woods or alongside water. I spend as much of my free time outside as I can. The sun and trees bring me peace I never once knew could exist in a life. I simply love, to love. To remind others of the love within themselves. Seeing a stranger’s smile or listening to someone speak on their passion, lights me UP I enjoy learning: about others and their journeys, about the depth in pieces of this miracle of this thing called LIFE, these miracle bodies that we are blessed to exist with. Learning, excites me. In my personal life and virtual journey, I’m often told that my openness about my journey, in the way I share love from my heart and share through my sensuality, this has allowed others to feel safe in opening up deeper into theirs. That, holds deeply special to me. More than anyone understands. ☀️ What questions are you curious about me?
2021-02-26 16:18:58 +0000 UTC View PostOne of my favorite forms of foreplay or way to build my sexual energy on my own: Dancing. For myself. For my man or partner ❤️ The sexual energy that builds as I choose a certain genre for the mood I wish to build. Choosing that song. Tuning into its beauty. Beginning to open my hips to the sound and layers, grinding them deeper as the song builds. Opening, surrendering, connecting. To you. To Source. To the sexual energy filling the moment and air. To the sound. When a woman feels safe to open herself into dance and overall movement of her body, to fall into her natural sensual nature and hold no shame for herself stepping into that sensual space, a powerful sexual being unfolds. She is able to feel her sexual and sensual feminine connection and power grow while you supporting her in tuning into this space is also a knowing she is safe to surrender deeper into, you ❤️
2021-02-25 18:17:46 +0000 UTC View Post
What do we think of this new set? 💛☀️ Thank you so much to D for this gift! Feeling deeply in my feminine in this new lingerie. ☀️Women deeply desire to surrender into the masculine. Often, we are stuck in our “independent mode” our go go go, or more of the masculine do / leadership energy. This, in a sexual space, doesn’t allow our bodies or hearts to open the way we desire. Without our slowing down or being cared for, we cannot hold full presence or dive as far into you, as we wish. One of the best ways to help the feminine into feeling more in her “sexy” or more surrendered in her feminine energy or in a space for intimacy is by making her feel special, cared for, seen. Allowing her, rest. It can be in the smallest of ways. Take care of the dishes for dinner that night Tell her to go spend an hour In the tub for herself Making a picked bouquet of flowers for her Telling her she looks beautiful in the outfit she is wearing These all, open us. Allowing her to have more time to rest and more space to dive into her femininity, will leave her energized and fueled, desiring YOU 💛
2021-02-25 02:06:29 +0000 UTC View Post
What is one of the TOP things us women desire most during sex? We deeply crave and also need your: presence. The more a woman feels you are fully present with her and her body, the more she can open herself up to you and your touch. For all of us: our deepest pleasure awakens when we are present, hearts opened to one another, minds lost in one another, not itself. We need to feel your desire along with your presence. Desire without presence and we cannot guide our hearts into our full surrender during sex the way we wish ✨What allows you to step into presence or feel present in a moment?
2021-02-24 02:26:26 +0000 UTC View Post
