What really gets my attention in a man?๐Not just looks ๐ but these three things:๐ฃ Generosity. Not just with gifts, but with time, attention, and affection.๐ฃ Willingness to act. Talk is cheap. Show me you want me.๐ฃA sense of humor, because nothing connects two people like laughter.and what about you? what things do attract you in women?