The more we choose to embrace life’s simple pleasures and the things that bring us joy, the more alive our entire lives and days become 🤍
Pleasure is all around us, waiting to be felt and connected into
A few of my favorite simple pleasures:
• the way the sun warms and cups my face
• the way rain sounds as it falls from the sky
• the way my breath feels slowly filling up my body
• the feeling of wind on my face and body
• the smell of coffee
• the way trees and flowers dance in the wind
• the genuine laugh or smile of a stranger
• the sound of an acoustic guitar
• the feeling of cold water hitting my tongue
• the tastes of fruit and chocolate
• Do you have any simple pleasures? •
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❤️ Why is diversifying our pleasure important? ❤️
Our brain, LOVES familiarity, habit and it loves its HIGHS
Much of the time when we find what we like within pleasure or cumming, we may stick to it.
When we begin to source all of our orgasms, sexual excitement or pleasure from more or less one place: one style of touch or toy, visual stimulus, porn/a focus of porn, one thing, etc: our brain begins to wire into this, enjoy this and crave more of this familiarity…
It may also crave an experience bigger than this.
Example: Using a vibrator or a certain stroke on ourself every time we are horny and desire orgasm
Our brain connects that vibrator and feeling, that stroke and feeling etc to pleasure and that sexual bliss in the end
The more we only use that 1 way, the more our brain creates a hardened pathway of needing that source to feel that same feeling of bliss, desire, pleasure or orgasm.
If we only source our pleasure from that 1 vibrator, 1 kind of same stroke, same porn or stimulus each time, same position in sex: we may start to see more difficulty in :
-achieving hard on, orgasm or pleasure outside of using that known source or stimuli
-new sexual experiences or in connection with a partner
Many wonder or have asked:
“Why can’t I finish without using my vibrator?”
“Why can’t I cum without watching porn?”
The more we diversify our pleasure, the easier it is for our brains to experience a larger realm of pleasurable experience and pleasure as well as be open and able to drop into the full pleasure experience we are having in that moment.
❤️ How to Diversify our Pleasure? ❤️
-Connect to pleasure in day to day moments instead of only genital focused pleasure or that 1 or few styles you know. Expand yourself with pleasure all around you. ( Slow smells, slow breaths into the body, slow biting into food, feeling the wind on your face, listening to a favorite song, etc)
-Explore new stimuli, new ways of stroking or self touch to see what else you may enjoy
-Try some sexual self exploration practices with yourself or explore new sexual experiences you’re curious of to build your pleasure resource book for yourself and your brain ☺️🤍
-Expand your conversation on pleasure with yourself and others. What about your current place with your pleasure do you enjoy most? What do you desire within it all? What does it bring you? What does pleasure look like for you? What drives you wild or ignites you? What do you desire? What does pleasure bring to your life?
The more that we have that brings us pleasure, the easier it is for our brains to experience pleasure overall and also experience that much more of it all
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✨Do you enjoy audio porn / erotica? ✨
I enjoy creating it as well as listening to it
as it allows the mind to not be focused as much on the visual aspect of what’s happening on a screen but instead allowing my imagination to connect deeper into the words creating my own experience within it all🤍
✨If you listen to this audio, what is your personal experience within it?
✨What do you feel and see when you close your eyes?
Messages are open to book your own custom audio erotica experience with me 🤍
How is breathing connected to our pleasure? 🤍
The way we breathe has deep impact on:
- the amount of pleasure we are available to feel
-how our brain and body functions
-the overall energy we can feel throughout our body
-how we can sustain orgasm or last longer before orgasm and more
✨Most humans due to our stress and the body’s tightening response to our stress are breathing very SHORT and SHALLOW breaths as well as these are into the CHEST.
✨When we breathe SLOWER as well as DEEPER into the BELLY and full body, we start to move energy throughout our whole body.
Our breath is our life energy and sexual energy ✨
Conscious work with our breath allows this energy to build up even more within us and come alive
Conscious breath allows us to also step out of our thinking MIND and go deeper into the BODY which is where our greatest pleasure lives.
With deeper breaths, we become CALMER, more IN TUNE, more ALIVE and we feel MORE 🤍
Have you ever connected with your breath in your self pleasure practice or during sex with a partner? ✨
✨What was your experience if so?
The power of eye contact 🤍
One of my biggest turn ons is the way someone gazes and connects into my eyes.
The energy and tension that can be built just through eye contact.
No needed words. No needed touch.
Just gazing back into one another.
✨Have you ever experienced this with another or felt this energy build with a stranger in public?✨
✨When you look into my eyes throughout this clip : how do you feel?
If eye contact with a woman or another makes you more uncomfortable and you want to feel more comfortable within it, feel free to use this video to practice locking eyes with me 🤍
Is she into me? | Is she in the mood right now?
🤍 Read her energy and body language first 🤍
This one practice can offer answers and a deeper look into the feminine in a moment or environment.
What is her body language and energy saying as you connect into or with her?
✨Offer her your gentle gaze / eye contact across the room or as you walk past or near her.
How does she respond? Is she catching your eye back? Is she open to your gaze? A bit nervous but still seeming open with eye contact or interest? Is she smiling back or is she turning away?
Is she avoiding eye contact and closing her body away?
✨Notice her body language as you are near ✨
Does her body seem open and inviting to you? Closed off and not interested? Hardened and tense?
Before you talk to her / offer her a compliment / try to see if she wants to go on a date or exchange numbers as well as each time before inviting sex or intimacy: check her body language
Understanding women on a deeper level starts with knowing the importance of reading our energy 🤍
When we feel safe and relaxed and interested, we naturally open.
Also remember that: if someone is not interested in you: there is another who will be 🤍 The more we allow that, the more true connection for all of us there is.
Allow the person to own their disinterest and shown energy and continue on in the knowing there IS a woman waiting to see your gaze with excitement and openness 🤍
Ignoring her cues, pressure, charm or force of changing energy will never naturally open a woman.
Allow her your presence and truth. She will show hers, too.
If she is not interested, know what is meant for you, is there….waiting just for YOU 🤍
How can we nourish the sacred soul within us?
How can we nourish our bodies? Our minds?
A few of my favorite ways to nourish myself 🤍
-creating space for alone time + reflection for me
-making fresh juice
-massaging my body with coconut oil
-exercising and boxing
-taking myself out to a new place to explore
-treating myself to something that brings me pleasure
-connecting in with music and my instruments
What makes us feel NOURISHED?
Quick tips for a mindful self pleasure practice 🤍
#1 • Start with reflecting on your INTENTION. This helps us understand why we are desiring self touch / pleasure in that moment
(Wanting to get in the mood / turned on? Wanting to build energy? Wanting to release extra stress? Wanting to explore a new feeling or kink? Wanting to numb or distract yourself? Wanting to feel a quick buzz or “high?” )
Knowing our intention helps us decide when self pleasure / masturbation is the best choice for us over if we may be using touch or release out of habit or known pattern to move through a moment.
This reflection can helps us look deeper into our connection to self pleasure and decide when connecting into pleasure in another way may be better for us ( exercise, a bath, time in nature, watching TV, talking to someone etc)
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#2. Take Time To Relax / Ground Yourself : Take a few deep breaths before you start touching or stroking.
Take in the moment as you remove your clothes. Take in the room around you, using your senses to go further into that.
Relaxing your body as much as possible before starting touch.
Slow intentional breaths connect you to every detail of your touch.
This step allows you to feel deeper into your strokes or touch as well as to connect deeper into the experience overall.
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#3. Presence With Your Touch :
Pleasure and release feel AMAZING and in this, we often want to race to the finish line.
When we are mindfully connecting with our body, we want to check in with: how present am I with my touch?
When we slow down, breathe into our touch, connecting to our senses of it all: we feel it all on a deeper level.
Are your strokes intentional and how deeply can you feel each one?
Presence keeps us connected to the fullest pleasure in the experience over only just in the stroke or in the release of the end 🤍
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If you are looking to dive into building a more mindful self pleasure practice and desire more 1:1 guidance, please reach out! I would love to support 🤍
A natural way to boost sex drive and energy 💚
Have you heard of or tried : Maca Root?
This is a plant that is native to Peru.
The root is dried and sold in capsules and powder form. There are varieties of Maca.
• It is great for hormone regulation and stamina.
• Packed with many nutrients as well! It contains protein and fiber. It is high in vitamin C, iron and copper.
• Maca has also been known to increase sperm quality and sperm production.
I add Maca daily to my smoothie 😌
Cheers to boosting our sex drives naturally and in a healthy way💚
Tell me….
✨What makes your heart race and your cock throb all at once?
✨How does it make you feel being asked that?
There is nothing shameful in speaking out our truth in our desires, turn ons and our pleasure.
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As you watch her legs fall open,
✨How does it make you feel? ✨
The way she gazes at you as she awaits you
The way her body falls across the sheets
The way her smile or essence draws you
Breathe it in for a few deep breaths
Know, there is no need to rush.
Take in this gift of this moment with her✨
Take in, this flower awaiting, before you
Breathe in the way she makes you feel as deep as you can all as you slowly scan her body from head to toe.
How her flower opens, the more she feels you with her
Take your time ✨🌼
I went camping for the first time this weekend 🏕
Such joy running through my body the whole trip being able to experience so many firsts.
✨What is something you are wanting to do in your own life that is on your bucket list?
✨How does it make you feel thinking about doing it?
✨ How badly do you want it?
After this weekend, I cannot wait until my next camping trip.
I now crave to make love amongst nature as well as to go to a nude campground.
I also crave to learn much more about plant identification and survival skills as well as increasing my overall camping knowledge :)
❤️ I’m one happy camper
Connecting into our imagination and fantasy can bring us deeper into our pleasure ❤️
Use this photo for your imagination as you are the camera view.
Am I standing over you in a chair?
Are you kneeled before me?
Are you secretly seeing this view or am I teasing you with it?
Use a few moments to build this fantasy in this photo.
Once you can imagine the situation,
Take 3 slow deep breaths. Exhaling very slowly and feeling the breath in the body.
Imagine we lock eyes.
2 more deep breaths as you gaze into them.
Breathe.
Breathe.
How do you feel?
Seeing others show their care for Mother Earth, that TURNS ME ON 💚✨
Can we challenge ourselves to 1 small change to better care for our Earth?
10 Small Ways To Help 🌎
1. Plant a tree 🌳
2. Spend time outside listening to nature
3. Choosing re-usable options over the throw away
4. Recycle your items whenever possible
4. Pick up trash in your neighborhood or when out
5. Eat 1 less meal with meat a week or more
6. Wait for a trash can over littering
7. Take 1-2 minutes off of shower time
8. Turn off water in between washing the dishes or brushing our teeth
9. Be mindful of paper use day to day
10. Buy secondhand over new
Living life in DEVOTION ☀️
This life is one big gifted miracle.
Each day, how can we treat ourselves just that much more like the miracle gifts we are?
Touching ourselves with more presence?
Breathing in the fresh air just that much deeper?
Taking in sounds we love just that much more?
Treating ourselves to more relaxation time?
Devote time to honoring YOU and your soul, every single day.
You are a blessing. Never forget that.
How do you feel about kink? 💓
Kink, allowed me to open my heart even deeper in the bedroom, in life and also offered me, incredible healing in my life.
One can be open to kink / kinky and also be a devoted lover💓
Sometimes when we see one embracing more of their wild desires or standing in their wild or one who is more kinky, we can pair that with the soul being one of less devotion or less committed. I want to break this thinking.
I am one of the most naturally devoted lovers also, enjoy kink.
All of our wild is here to be OURS and embraced.
When a partner embraces that with me, I open with them, even more.
We go deeper, together.
May we remember this with our relationships 💓
How healthy it can be to encourage one another to continue to feel good embracing their natural wild
How we can play with that energy, together 💓
What brings you pleasure? 💚✨
What does self pleasure allow for your life? 💚✨
Connecting with our own pleasure and touch and having a relationship with it, is #1.
It helps us explore, taking a deeper look into what we like, dislike and our desires in true sexual pleasure and pleasure overall.
It also helps us navigate further within communicating with partners and the bedroom too.
Our pleasure can be a way to keep us motivated and to stay hungry in life 💚
Cheers to connecting deeper with our touch and to our own life pleasures MORE, ✨
In every little touch, may we go even deeper ✨
Every glide of our finger tip across our skin, may we drop in just a little further ✨
How present can we be when we touch ourselves? When we undress or watch a partner ?
How slow can our touch become?
✨Give yourself a taste ✨
Fun Fact: Our lips hold over 1 million nerve endings 🌸
The more nerve endings, the more PLEASURE ✨
The pleasure that is awaiting in connecting deeper with our lips.
In slowing down a bit more with each moment with them. Finding presence with their magic.
Breathing in the sensations they bring us.
✨Whether it’s when eating, allowing the lips to slow and lead in taking in the flavors, sensations, etc even MORE.
✨Whether it’s with a partner and our lips slowly deepening into the moment. Feeling them connect with the other: feeling them guiding across their body, taking in their taste, skin and moment.
When our lips are involved, let us take in what they bring just that much MORE ✨
5 ways to enhance our self pleasure experience❤️
#1 ✨ Inviting Sound In : Whatever feels good: a long mmm, a “fuckk”, a growl: play with sounds and vocalization during your self pleasure.
#2. ✨ Edging : Using our connected breath and our touch, building and letting go of the energy is a great way to deepen and expand the experience
#3.✨ Eye Contact : Gazing into a mirror into our own eyes. This connected with our breathing and desire for pleasure, can expand our body’s experience
#4. ✨Dirty Talk : Inviting what we hide or think. Speaking it aloud to ourselves in the mirror. Allowing it out.
#5. Conscious Breaths: Pairing your self pleasure with connected breaths. Inhale: stroke up ~ Exhale: let go : There are many ways to pair the breath with our play
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One of my greatest turn ons: Giving someone a safe space to fully SURRENDER, RECEIVE and LET GO of the need to lead or control.
Surrender is a place of peace.
A place of stillness and pure healing for humans.
The place of fully receiving and being dropped in.
• Have you ever had the opportunity or have ever desired to fully surrender to another in a position in life or in sex / pleasure / the bedroom?
Surrender or submission looks different for all of us. We each enjoy this peace in different ways.
Maybe it’s opening to a BJ 100%, no focus on giving back in the moment.
Maybe it’s being taken out of the responsibility to have to make those decisions for the home for a bit and simply be TOLD.
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There is a freedom in this being able to let go of leading or controlling.
In the being guided and opened safely, fully.
Dropping out of the feeling we must hold lead or hold onto control for it all.
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If you are curious about exploring or starting your journey into deeper submission and would like to work with me 1:1 in a soft dom / wellness dom space, message me ❤️
I am excited to hear all of your feedback here on submission! I will be sharing more videos and content on exploring surrender, exercises into surrender and more ❤️
• Do you find it easy to share about what you enjoy and don’t within the bedroom / sex + pleasure?
You deserve to.
• Our partners also need to be able to share with us what they enjoy and don’t.
✨How often do we skip this conversation all together and just have sex? ✨
This conversation can be uncomfortable for us right?
I feel it is a necessity to work within communication in this area in order for everyone to feel truly fulfilled during and after sex + intimacy not having to hold back or shut down in their truth.
If we are having to hold back our truth, this can show up in other ways ( built resentment, easier arguments, more anger, more desire to hold back or control in other situations, etc )
I would love to have a conversation on this and really guide one another in this if anyone has any questions or specific situations they are wanting to bring up in a partnership or future situation etc ❤️
We must know always: we each deserve to safely share, openly honor and enjoy our truth.
Anyone else dance when they eat something tasty? Just me? ☺️
Let us normalize celebrating those little pleasures more ❤️
Let us MOAN when it feels right
Emote our mmmms during our meals
Dance when those flavors hit our tongue
Normalize expressing our BLISS
Those little moments are how we go deeper into this life experience. To pull it all in, just that much closer 💓
Have you heard of the PSOAS Muscle? ❤️
This muscle is one of the most important in our body to learn about and connect into.
It impacts back pain, how we breathe, how effectively our bl00d and lymph can pump, how stable our spine is, how our posture falls, how we walk and MORE in the body..
The PSOAS is even connected into...OUR SEX / PLEASURE ❤️
-how much pleasure we can feel during sex
-holding erections
-pain during sex
-emotional connection during sex + release during sex
The PSOAS is also an emotional muscle.
It holds our feelings and stores them there often showing through numbness, tension, pain or over tightening / weakening of the muscle.
When we are STRESSED, it also can get STRESSED.
How we take care of our PSOAS can impact much in our day to day lives.
I will be sharing more exercises and information going forward on my page on this powerful muscle ❤️
How we can stretch it, strengthen it, open it, release it and more
Below is a slow ball exercise for opening that you can do that also builds sexual energy when combined with the breath
✨KEY FOR THIS 1ST Exercise✨
-light and intentional bouncing with a very light stretch
-Hip circles with slow inhales and exhales with a slight opening and closing of the legs
If you have any questions, message me ❤️
What does foreplay look like for you? ✨
Do you have a favorite kind that you enjoy? ✨
Often when we think of foreplay, we think of it with a partner or we think oral, massaging, making out, etc right before we dive into sex
Foreplay and building our sexual tension can be fun and can happen... ALL DAY LONG ✨☀️
In the smallest ways, we can be building that tension for play for ourselves or with our partner all day ✨
A few examples:
• How we gaze to look at our partner or ourselves
• Playing a song that turns us on
• Wearing a scent that excites us
• Try on an outfit you like for yourself or your partner
• Lighting candles during the day to set a mood
• Cooking together and lightly brushing up against one another
• Massaging our chest and neck as our partner secretly watches from a far
• Secretly finishing a chore for a partner
• Complimenting yourself and your partner
• Deep, slow breathing alone or together
Let us seduce ourselves a little deeper today ❤️
Did you know: We LOVE to hear you moan ❤️
It turns us on. It opens us further to feeling you.
In the moments you desire to share a sound, I invite you to express it. Know, there is pleasure and release waiting there.
Whatever sound(s) feel(s) true, drop into it . Express it.✨ Open your chest and your body to its depth.
A roar.
A moan.
A sigh.
A mmmm.
A yessss.
Whatever sound is right for you in a moment, practice releasing it and notice how it feels in your body.
As you eat a bite of food and want to express its goodness, DO IT
As you feel pleasure in a moment, what sound comes to you? EXPRESS IT.
Try this in bed and during self pleasure too ✨✨
As the moments aliven, know your sounds will guide you further
We each can work with feeling more comfortable in sharing our sounds in our day to day lives
✨Do you have a certain sound or expression you hear from another that turns you on?
Pleasure starts outside of sex and the bedroom
More pleasure is found not in the right partner, not in the perfect position or perfect self pleasure practice... It is awaiting in our deepening of our connection to LIFE. Also, to ourselves.
💓 How much can we feel and experience the pleasure ever surrounding us?
💓 How can we make love to LIFE?
More pleasure in the bedroom comes from opening our relationship with the pleasure ever within us and the life here with us
• Stand in the sun. Let the sun penetrate your body with its warmth and love. Breathe the heat and this feeling it brings in you in, nice and slow.
• When the wind is out and blowing, take a moment to allow your body to be taken by it’s force. Feel the wind connecting with your skin.
• As you drink your coffee, take a slower sip. Breathe in the smells. Taste the layers of flavor. Open yourself to the pleasure this brings you.
• As you listen to your favorite song, close your eyes and feel the depth of the music. Allow the rhythm and beat to awaken your insides. Fall deeper into the pleasure of the music.
• As you take a bite of your meal, slow down with the pleasure within it all. The smell. The layers of flavor and taste. Moan into them. Open to what is waiting to fill you with bliss, right in this moment. Go as deep as you can with that moment.
This life surrounds us with moments of pleasure to take in
• How will we make love to this blessing of a life today?
• How can we still feel as we are experiencing bliss and making love during the day without ever even touching ourselves sexually? ✨💓
Cheers, to our orgasmic LIFE ✨
💛 A Quick Meditation For After Work 💛
• Finding a quiet place for yourself for a few moments or you can this meditation quietly in your head wherever you may be
• Allow yourself to start with 3 slow inhales and FULL slow but with force exhales ( releasing all of the air on the exhale)
✨Inhale - through the nose, slowly and deeply
✨Exhale- through the mouth, slower than the inhale but with FORCE
• On the exhale, feel the letting go and repeat to yourself:
✨“I am letting go of all stress, thoughts and emotion leftover from my work day today. I leave them behind now.” ✨
• Find a statement or phrase that works for you connecting to that feeling of the letting go and repeat it daily on your exhales.
Softening the tense areas of the body as you exhale.
Imagine yourself truly exhaling away what was left from today... knowing you are deserving to rest now.
You did your work and now, time for rest 💛
